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boglin ([personal profile] boglin) wrote2008-06-07 04:17 pm

Yes - it's true - I hate you...

Well, actually I don't.

If you see this, and there isn't a post that follows in a couple of minutes time then you'll probably discover I've removed you from my friends list.

It's *really* nothing personal. It's for one of the following reasons...

  • I don't think you're reading my LJ at all - this isn't a vindictive "Ah! You don't read me so I shall remove you!". I just kind of want to know who I'm talking to in a way - and if I'm not talking to you, then I might as well be realistic about it. It could be that you don't read often, but pop by every now and again, if so then let me know - it would be nice if you did as there's a couple of people I've removed which has made me a little sad to realise I'm so out of touch with you.

  • I don't think you're reading LJ at all. Full stop. In this case, thinking I'm talking to you on LJ is a stupid idea, and I need to make sure if I need to talk to you, I talk to you in some other way.

  • I just don't know you at all - either IRL or online really - we've never interacted, or haven't done in a long while, and this is a journal rather than a blog, and I want to keep it with people who I feel I know.

  • And then there are a couple of names I've removed because they're not there anymore. Difficult one, really, but it's possibly best to remember folks in a different way.

    If I am bad and wrong to have taken you off, give me a shout.
  • [identity profile] urshulgi.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
    According to LJ you haven't removed me yet, but I'm not going to be offended if you do. Although we don't really meet in the same circles any more I still like to think of you as a friend, albeit a more distant one nowadays :-)

    I read your LJ regularly, but don't really comment unless I have something interesting to say (which isn't that often these days!). I'm sure we'll continue to randomly bump into each other at goth events anyway!

    Justin

    [identity profile] boglin.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 03:49 pm (UTC)(link)
    No - I haven't removed you! I also read your journal.

    There are a few people - and I'd count you as amongst them - who I think of fondly, and am a bit sad that I don't really see anymore.

    [identity profile] huggirl.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
    I do read your LJ especially the holiday ones as you do
    go to cool places, I'm just not great at leaving comments.

    The other problem is I don't come out anymore and apart from
    the occasional hello such as Thursday night I don't get to talk to you or many others.

    No worries I do understand where you're coming from.


    [identity profile] boglin.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
    That's great - sorry for removing you - I shall add you back again :)

    [identity profile] huggirl.livejournal.com 2008-06-08 09:52 am (UTC)(link)
    Awww cheers :) I always like looking at the pics
    from the Seal Sanct in Gweek I really love it there. :)

    (Anonymous) 2008-06-08 10:31 am (UTC)(link)
    Hiya, I understand you removing me, not that difficult to really! Although I did read your lj when I was on but never had much worthy to comment with. Could I still be friends with Farleycat though? I love his pics and adventures, always makes me smile!

    [identity profile] boglin.livejournal.com 2008-06-08 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
    I don't know who you are - you're anonymous!

    [identity profile] loopee-lu.livejournal.com 2008-06-11 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
    That's strange, I'm sure I replied to you yesterday, of course you may have it on screen all! Anyway, that was me that posted anonymously! Totally by accident, didn't realise that my laptop hadn't kept me signed in!