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boglin ([personal profile] boglin) wrote2008-06-07 04:17 pm

Yes - it's true - I hate you...

Well, actually I don't.

If you see this, and there isn't a post that follows in a couple of minutes time then you'll probably discover I've removed you from my friends list.

It's *really* nothing personal. It's for one of the following reasons...

  • I don't think you're reading my LJ at all - this isn't a vindictive "Ah! You don't read me so I shall remove you!". I just kind of want to know who I'm talking to in a way - and if I'm not talking to you, then I might as well be realistic about it. It could be that you don't read often, but pop by every now and again, if so then let me know - it would be nice if you did as there's a couple of people I've removed which has made me a little sad to realise I'm so out of touch with you.

  • I don't think you're reading LJ at all. Full stop. In this case, thinking I'm talking to you on LJ is a stupid idea, and I need to make sure if I need to talk to you, I talk to you in some other way.

  • I just don't know you at all - either IRL or online really - we've never interacted, or haven't done in a long while, and this is a journal rather than a blog, and I want to keep it with people who I feel I know.

  • And then there are a couple of names I've removed because they're not there anymore. Difficult one, really, but it's possibly best to remember folks in a different way.

    If I am bad and wrong to have taken you off, give me a shout.
  • [identity profile] urshulgi.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
    According to LJ you haven't removed me yet, but I'm not going to be offended if you do. Although we don't really meet in the same circles any more I still like to think of you as a friend, albeit a more distant one nowadays :-)

    I read your LJ regularly, but don't really comment unless I have something interesting to say (which isn't that often these days!). I'm sure we'll continue to randomly bump into each other at goth events anyway!

    Justin

    [identity profile] huggirl.livejournal.com 2008-06-07 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
    I do read your LJ especially the holiday ones as you do
    go to cool places, I'm just not great at leaving comments.

    The other problem is I don't come out anymore and apart from
    the occasional hello such as Thursday night I don't get to talk to you or many others.

    No worries I do understand where you're coming from.


    (Anonymous) 2008-06-08 10:31 am (UTC)(link)
    Hiya, I understand you removing me, not that difficult to really! Although I did read your lj when I was on but never had much worthy to comment with. Could I still be friends with Farleycat though? I love his pics and adventures, always makes me smile!