No, I'm not thinking of culling - just of simplifying the ludicrously obsessive-compulsive custom lists I have, and thinking about how close I am to people and how close they feel to me as one factor in the simplication. And I case of pondering ones friendslist and just out of interest wondering if relationships are reciprical. I think there are people you are *close* to and people you find interesting, and although as you say we're not really the former, I'd have you in the latter category!